Monday, July 15, 2013

How Are You?


It's been 8 months since I had my babies, and this past weekend was the first weekend I went out and had a nice night with a friend! I've been so consumed with making sure Tommy was a happy and healthy growing boy that I forgot about myself for a while there. I mean..... isn't that what mothers do? 

It's certainly not that people haven't reached out because they have. People have been amazing! A part of me just needed to lay low for a while. Partly to heal, and partly because I knew when I saw people, I would be faced with the inevitable question. 
How are you? 
I mean why wouldn't a friend ask me that? Why wouldn't a friend be concerned with my well being? But it was a question I dredded. I dredded it because deep down I felt that if I was asked about my daughter I might crumble.

Well, guess what? I didn't! 
This weekend was a HUGE step for me. It proved to me that the past 8 months in hiding was exactly what I needed. I needed that time to process what happened and thanks to a wonderful friend who didn't push, I faced it and spoke about it freely. It was exhilarating! 
Thank you Heather for the delicious Italian spread, the fabulous champagne, your compassion, great energy and most of all friendship!


Homemade Brushetta, champagne, cheeses, spinach hummus. 


Olives, mixed nuts, fresh strawberries, grapes and watermelon. All Organic!

Yummy cupcakes!
Boomer!

Hope everyone has a great week!

Daily Gratitude: Today I am thankful for hugs.  ( :

2 comments:

Hot or NOT! said...

p.s. luv the doodle ;) looks like my Zoe.

Hot or NOT! said...

Lea, I have been wanting to reach out to you for so long but wanted to give you your space. You, Michael and Tommy have been in my thoughts and prayers. I am glad that things are starting to smooth out for your family. Tommy is adorable!!! I look forward to catching up with you... let me know when it's our turn lol ;) Big hugs.